We often hear people say that love is blind, especially when we deeply falling in love with someone. All we see and hear about him/her would be always good and perfect. Even if he/she has something bad we will close our eyes and deny every negative things about him/her. We only see what we want to see and hear what we want to hear. However, I think there is some misconception about this idea. I believe when we really love someone, we won't be blind. Our eyes should be open more clearly and we can see both positive and negative things about him/her. Furthermore, we can accept him/her as he/she is with the good and the bad. We're not assuming and convincing ourselves that there is nothing negative about him/her, instead we are helping him/her to be a better person and letting them know their negative sides.
Maybe some people assume that we are blind because they cannot see something worthy in him/her as we do. So, who is the blind one then? Hmmm depend on our point of view...
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